111: Why We Are All Trapped In A Social Media Echo-Chamber

111: Why We Are All Trapped In A Social Media Echo-Chamber

Social media uses algorithms designed to promote maximum engagement.

It does this by showing posts to people who will engage (positively or negatively) - typically this is the same people over and over again.

This creates an echo-chamber that distorts your reality - if left unchecked it can make you feel like the whole world is split (and viciously attacking each other) all around the issues closest to you.

This will corrupt your thinking and is simply untrue.

In this episode I break down how this happens and the impact it will have on your mental state, as well as how best to manage it.

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110: There Is No Correct Way To Be A Human

110: There Is No Correct Way To Be A Human

It is vital to remember that there is no one way to be successful (creatively, financially, spiritually, socially).

Successful people (and the unsuccessful alike) will offer endless advice. They will share ‘there truths’. Some of this will work for you, most won’t.

Keep what does, and disregard the rest - and when you get into a grove that works for you … Stick to it!

In this episode, I break down my approach (and folly) in my creative process, and how to avoid getting sidetracked by ‘helpful’ advice.

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109: Trapped By The Symptoms Of BPD

109: Trapped By The Symptoms Of BPD

Black and white thinking, splitting and looking for the worst in people/events are hallmarks of BPD symptoms.

Personally I find this very trapping. I know I am doing it, and don’t want to cause loved ones duress, so I stay silent (thus remaining trapped). It can feel like their is no way out.

In this episode I discuss this trap in detail as well as discuss how I am working through it.

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108: Why If I Get 'Triggered' It's On Me

108: Why If I Get 'Triggered' It's On Me

Childhood neglect and past trauma leaves a mark. Overtime, these can resurface in the form of ‘triggers’ - internal emotional reactions to environmental stimulus.

In this episode, I share my unique viewpoint on being triggered: Namely that is is on me to manage my triggers, and it is not the fault of the person triggering me (unless they are doing it intentionally of course).

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107: How To Be Successful At What Ever You Do

107: How To Be Successful At What Ever You Do

If you keep turning up, you wont fail - provided you learn from past mistakes.

It is important to remember that every successful person kept turning up. They just kept going, pushed though, put in the work. They started from the same place as all of us. They had many reasons not to put in the work. Yet they did.

They took advantage of their natural attributes and upbringings of course, but they worked. If they can do it so can I - and so can you!

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Introducing The Motherland Podcast

Introducing The Motherland Podcast

I have just released ‘The Motherland Podcast’ with my wife Maria - This is a place where you will learn some conversational Russian and hear some ridiculous stories about our experience visiting The Motherland.

If you are interested in Russian culture, want to learn the language or simply need to debrief after visiting yourself, this podcast will be for you.

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105: Create A Killer Morning Routine

105: Create A Killer Morning Routine

All forms of self-improvement involve small steps repeated daily. A morning routine is the best way to get this into your life. It guarantees that you will do all the tasks, learning and personal development that you desire – but haven’t yet found time for.

So if you want to lose weight, get fit, learn a language, start a meditation practice, and have a clean house, or if you just want to be well primed to tackle the day ahead; a morning routine is a must.

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104: Introducing 'Lucidity' (book) - A Universe Where Lucid Dreams Are Connected

104:  Introducing 'Lucidity' (book) - A Universe Where Lucid Dreams Are Connected

Lucidity’ is a new fantasy fiction book that I am currently working on. It takes place in a universe where dreams are interconnected, meaning those who have the skill and desire to do so can enter another dream and take control of it.

In addition to enjoying an engaging story, readers will learn how to lucid dream (along with the main character).

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103: How Neglect Stunts Your Growth

103: How Neglect Stunts Your Growth

Topic: Neglect is the absence of something. When it comes in terms of physical needs (food, water, shelter etc) the consequences are immediately obvious. However, when it is emotional neglect, and attention neglect, the ramifications are often hidden. In this episode I discuss these ramifications as well as what I am doing to overcome them.

Book Chapter: ‘Learn How To Learn’ (00:12:50) ch:4.2 of How To Get Your Sh!t Together

“Learning how to learn is life’s most important skill.” – Tony Buzan

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102: One Minute Life Hacks - New Podcast Out Now

102: One Minute Life Hacks - New Podcast Out Now

I have just released ‘The One Minute Life Hacks Podcast’ . Here I will be sharing the how and why of self-improvement in just one minute.

The first episode is called ‘How To Wake Up Earlier & Not Be Tired’, enjoy!

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101: What Does Mania Feel Like

101: What Does Mania Feel Like

Topic: By sharing the reality of mental illness, we can hopefully help to reduce the stigma and let people know they are not alone. In this episode I share my recent manic experience, recorded both during and after the event. This is what mental illness really looks like.

Book Chapter: ‘Learn How To Say No’ (00:15:15) of How To Get Your Sh!t Together

“When you say ‘yes’ to others, make sure you are not saying ‘no’ to yourself.” – Paulo Coelho

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100: What I Wish I Knew 100 Episodes Ago ...

100: What I Wish I Knew 100 Episodes Ago ...

Lessons Learnt:
- Just start: You will learn along the way
- Done is better than perfect
- Don’t expect support (it will come, but not how you think it will)
- Be humble, there is always more to learn
- Don’t stop, ever
- It’s okay to pivot/change/refocus
- Value yourself – time is the most important resource you have
- Be present with what you are doing/the people in your life

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99: The Two Things All Good Relationships Must Have

99: The Two Things All Good Relationships Must Have

Honest communication and trust are essential components in every good relationship. Unless these factors are present, the relationship simply wont last, or at least won’t be as prosperous.

Book Chapters: ‘Changing Our Reality’ & ‘Historical File h001a’ of Upgrade

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98: Why You Should Choose To Take The Harder Option Whenever Possible

98: Why You Should Choose To Take The Harder Option Whenever Possible

Topic: It is easy to fall into the comfortable rut and just coast. This is fine if you are thriving, but if you want more, anything more, you will need to push for it.

Book Chapter: ‘Only You Can Change Your Life’, ch 4.1 of How To Get Your Sh!t Together

”Your Attention Please: No one is coming to save you. This life of yours is 100% your responsibility.” - Anonymous

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96: At Least You Are Paid Well ...

96: At Least You Are Paid Well ...

Long hours, traffic and stress … at least you are paid well.

Every morning you are in a rush. Cringing at the shrill alarm, you relish the warmth for another second. The sheets are hugging you, the bed is soft. It is almost pleading with you to stay ...

In this episode I release part 1 of Wage Slave, and talk about how good pay can trap people in crappy jobs.

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95: The Lag Between Taking Action & Actually Noticing Results

95: The Lag Between Taking Action & Actually Noticing Results

There is a lag between taking action to improve yourself (diet, exercise, meditation etc) and noticing the results of those actions.

Keep this in mind whenever you start a new positive habit. If you know that it will take a while to see any benefits. then you will persevere with it long enough to actually see those results.

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94: My Morning Routine (& How You Can Make One Work For You!)

94: My Morning Routine (& How You Can Make One Work For You!)

For me, sticking to a morning ritual is key, both for my mental health, but also for my productivity. In this episode I break down my morning, I talk about why I use a routine, as well as how you can implement one in your life.

My mornings in a nutshell:
- Wake at 6am
- Green tea with jasmine
- Meditate (40 mins)
- Black coffee
- Russian language lesson #1 (3 mins)
- Exercise (45 mins)
- Russian language lesson #2 (3 mins)
- Prioritise my day (3 mins)
- Respond to social (5 mins)
- Post on social (5 mins)
- Cold shower

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93: Meditation - The Lead Domino For Good Mental Health

93: Meditation - The Lead Domino For Good Mental Health

If I could only choose one treatment option to manage my mental health, I would choose Mindfulness Meditation.

It is the lead domino for mental health. It will enhance your focus, clarity and ability to detach from negative thoughts.

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